I was born this way

“Oh, well, that’s just the way I am.”

I think we’ve all heard people excuse themselves with some variation on that phrase, as they let others know they are comfortable with their own particular failings and don’t plan to try to change.  Everything from selfish, inconsiderate actions to sexual immorality has been explained away with either, “That’s the way God made me,” or “I was born this way.”

There is some small validity in this stance, but only as much as is explained by original sin. One has only to observe infants and toddlers to recognize the innate selfishness and greed of all humans.  We are familiar with the slogan, a child must be taught to hate, and the opposite is just as true; children must be taught to be loving, generous and responsible. It does not come naturally.

While we are all born wanting to fulfill our own desires, those desires are certainly influenced by our post-natal experiences.  We each have different cravings for things temptationwhich are not good for us. Choosing to indulge them is a matter of character and upbringing. I have been born with a craving for bread and sweets, but since I have diabetes, I need to choose to deny myself in order to remain healthy.

We all face these same choices every day. We may have been born that way, but, hopefully, we have learned as we’ve matured to make wise, generous, considerate, and healthy choices when confronted with harmful temptations.

1 Corinthians 10:13 No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.


About Jonna Hawker Turek

I write Christian fiction under my maiden name, J.B. Hawker.
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2 Responses to I was born this way

  1. Prior to becoming a Christian I blamed God all the time. It was His fault I was the way I was. And it was His fault for not changing me. I have sense learned better 🙂


    • I think we all go through that stage, Saleama. As we read in James 1:13 “And remember, when you are being tempted, do not say, “God is tempting me.” God is never tempted to do wrong, and he never tempts anyone else. 14 Temptation comes from our own desires, which entice us and drag us away.” It’s an attitude that’s been around a long time, either denying God exists or blaming Him for all our troubles.

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