Hag? Crone? Bag Lady? Not me!

The stereotypes of old women as poor, dumb, and ugly have remained similar over the past 15 years. … The older woman should be viewed from another perspective, one in which her life history records her transformations and individuality throughout her lifespan.

While reading “Older and Happier at Work” by Luchman, Kaplan, & Dala,  the phrases  above popped out at me.

Although I don’t yet consider myself to be an “old woman”, with any luck I am moving inexorably in that direction.

I come from a long line of old women. My great-grandmother, grandmother and mother all lived vigorously into their late nineties, so I have always supposed that I would follow in their path. For that reason, among others, I have chosen as my motto “Anyone can be young; it takes talent to grow old”, which explains my interest in the article I have quoted here.

Few women would agree that all older women should be stereotyped as hags, crones or bag ladies, but how many of us think about looking at one another in light of our life histories and the resultant transformations that created our individuality?

Do we bother to look for these facets in one another? Or in ourselves?

If you belong to a grcalloutoup of women, whether a group of two – just you and your best friend – or an organized gathering, try the experiment of learning each others’ history highlights, life transformations and idiosyncrasies. What did each one want to become at her various life stages? Did she accomplish any of her youthful goals? Why, how, or why not? What wisdom was gained on the journey? What skills?

If your group is a ministry or community action group you may discover unknown talents and resources to help achieve your goals.  At the very least, you will learn things about your friends and about yourself that may give you a new, richer perspective on the journey that is life.

You may even become better equipped to enter old age with the talent and flair necessary to enjoy all the days God gives you.

About Jonna Hawker Turek

I write Christian fiction under my maiden name, J.B. Hawker.
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2 Responses to Hag? Crone? Bag Lady? Not me!

  1. Pingback: Appreciating Old Women | Power Walking with Jonna

  2. Terri Hawker says:

    I like this one!!

    Date: Sun, 10 Mar 2013 18:01:30 +0000 To: hawkhunt2@hotmail.com


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